Monday, January 6, 2014

Sexless marriage

Well-known preacher and bestselling author Bo Sanchez reminded married couples that they should always make time for sex, stressing that it is “very important.” Sanchez made the statement as some married couples tend to have less time for intimacy because of their respective schedules at work. Well, this is just one of the reasons and somehow that is justifiable. But how about others, say my ex husband, who didn't even have work? And still didn't like having that much sex with me?



“Because there are days when you would rather sleep than have sex. But no, you should make a decision that ‘this is my way of showing love to my spouse. This is a priority.’ And you know, after you do it, you say, ‘wow, thank God we’re married. I love this woman,’” he added.  

A good sex is something to be thankful for to God almighty. I wonder what people can say about couples like us? I remember the things I tried doing in the hope of getting fucked by my husband. Most of them failed. It is quite obvious that the husband had other girls on the side. Hello? Why not? That's why he didn't like having sex with me because he always eternally wanted other women. 

And then I reached a point where I gave up. And then got into a relationship with someone else. Who gave me all the sex I wanted. Not in an abnormal kind of way. But that was the only time when I realized a regular couple can have at least  a minimum of 3 and that can go all the way till the morning reaching 8,9,10. 

God how I was missing something! And my family condemns me for giving up on our marriage???? Bo Sanchez, what can you say about it? What is your advice? 

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